Zhuzhing up your sex life with a new toy or position is one thing, but incorporating actual games can sometimes feel weirdly daunting? Especially because the word "game" can elicit images of a massive rule book to memorize, which can feel like A Lot when you're trying to bone after two wines and just want something easy and fun. Luckily, sex games don't have to be complicated! If anything, the very best ones are almost more like little tweaks in your bedroom play that make you feel way more connected and yes, horny. So if you're on the hunt for some new ideas, one of these 30 might just do the trick! For Truths, opt for ones that are related to helping you understand your partner better on a sexual level, like "Tell me a sexual fantasy you have" or "What's the hottest sex scene you've ever watched? Example: "I dare you to give me your best striptease right now.
1. You've Got 30 Seconds
Need I say more? Does anyone really need to justify making sex more playful, creative, longer lasting, and intimate? Everyone wins. All you need is desire. Redefine the four suits. Maybe diamonds now represent oral sex. Hearts can represent kissing. Say spades are now massage. And clovers can be hands-on action…. The numbers on the cards can equal the number of seconds or minutes that whoever draws the card is supposed to then perform said act.
There are party games and video games and mind games, and then there are good, romp-in-the-bed sex games. These games inject some excitement into a relationship, and they are not as lazy as a simple game of "Truth or Dare" that you'll inevitably quit after two rounds, because it's boring. Don't get us started on "Never Have I Ever. And keeping things fun in a relationship is pretty damn important, especially if your relationship is well past the honeymoon phase. A study found that participants in long-term relationships of at least three years who enjoyed more orgasms, engaged in more oral sex, and experimented with more sex positions reported being highly satisfied with their sex lives. And wouldn't you know it, a sex game is a tailor-made way to increase all three.
Listen, having a sex routine isn't bad. But it is important to mix things up every once in awhile to help you learn and explore what you enjoy. Play these games that'll make you concentrate on the journey , resulting in a final act that's especially fun. Every time somebody falls, they have to remove a layer. Why: It's a fun way to show off your flexibility, and who knows — you may discover new positions. Buy the classic game in the ultimate size which features a bigger map to make it more interesting. What You Need: A hat or small jar or bowl , small pieces of paper, and a pen. How to Play: Each of you will write down fantasies you have yet to share with your partner, be it having sex in a certain part of the house or trying out a new position.