Do you think the vast majority of the world's population accepts transgenderism as legitimate? Maybe only leave it for later. Years later, I met my current partner and they showed me how to enjoy sex. Talk to someone you know and trust. Take your time to experience your sexual and romantic feelings or your gender without trying to use identities to define them. Always start of gentle, later you can ask to speed it up if you choose to.
Is it 'gay' for a man to shave his legs?
Forgot password? Porn involving trans folks is often billed using offensive and dehumanizing terms. Unless he is a wild man, he's probably just as worried as you are. Maybe then he wont notice it.
You just might need this support sooner than you think.